J.Lo Admits She Had ‘PTSD’ Ahead Of Ben Affleck Wedding After Plans ‘All Fell Apart’ 20 Years Prior

Before marrying Ben Affleck during the summer of 2022, Jennifer Lopez admits she feared that their marriage plans would fall through like they did before their first attempt to walk down the aisle in 2003.

View gallerySavannah, GA - *PREMIUM-EXCLUSIVE* - And the bride wore… white. Jennifer Lopez wears a stunning white wedding dress as she celebrates her marriage to Ben Affleck, suitably dashing in a white jacket and black pants. The couple kissed and posed for pics around Ben’s $8million Georgia mansion on Saturday evening before spending the night celebrating their love and their union with family and a raft of A-list friends. All the couple’s children from their new blended family were also spotted on a walkway leading to Ben’s plantation style house with two of the boys carrying J Lo, now Jennifer Affleck’s, incredible train.
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Jennifer Lopez hasn’t forgotten the fact that her first wedding to Ben Affleck was called off just four days beforehand — with guests already on the way — back in 2003. In fact, it’s the reason the two eloped in Las Vegas this time around. “We were planning to get married in August in Savannah, Georgia, and the family was going to be there and everyone was going to be there,” Jennifer explained on Jimmy Kimmel Live! “It was so stressful. I don’t know if you guys know this, but 20 years ago, we were supposed to get married and it kind of all fell apart back then. So this time I absolutely still had a little PTSD.”

Jen explained that she and Ben were having a wedding planning meeting in July and it stressed her out so much that Ben was the one who suggested a Vegas wedding. When he brought up the idea of going to Vegas THAT night, Jen was skeptical, since she had a rehearsal that day. “He’s like, ‘Go to rehearsal, when you come back, I’ll have everything set up,'” the singer/actress went on. “Three of our kids were at camp and two were with us, and he’s like, ‘They’ll be our witnesses, let’s go, we’re doing it tonight.’ And we did. It was amazing. It was the best night.”

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Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck on the red carpet. (Janet Gough / AFF-USA.com / MEGA)

Eventually, Jen and Ben did have their planned Georgia wedding, with family and friends in attendance, as well. During the interview, Jimmy Kimmel questioned why he wasn’t one of the lucky friends to score an invite, and Jen had to admit that she had no idea. “Aren’t you and Ben, like, good friends?” she wondered. Luckily, it was all in good fun, and Jimmy wound up giving Jen his gift on the show: Dunkin’ Donuts-themed cups for Dunkin’ lover Ben!

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J.Lo arriving to ‘Jimmy Kimmel Live!’ (APEX / MEGA)

Jennifer was on Kimmel’s show to promote her upcoming movieShotgun Wedding, which she stars in with Josh Duhamel. After filming the talk show, she attended the movie’s premiere, as well. Ben was by her side for the big night.

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